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Rachel Claire Haynes

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I am a spiritual counselor, clairvoyant healer, teacher and writer. That’s the business side of things. But there’s also the me side of things; the woman who can’t resist petting animals and who has an occasional chocolate bar for dinner, who is more than passionate about women’s spirituality (and rights!) and loves living this amazing life of mine. Read More Read More…

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I’m a proud mama of spinach, lettuce, kale, carr

I’m a proud mama of spinach, lettuce, kale, carrots & chicks.

#organicgarden #backyardchickens #growyourownfood #babychicks🐣 #longmontcolorado #thelindentreehouse #summertime #waldorfinspired #lifeways #longmontwaldorfpreschool #longmontlifewayspreschool #unschooling

Today. Yesterday. Magical birthday memories made a

Today. Yesterday. Magical birthday memories made at the hot springs! 🙏🌟🌈💐🦋

#mtprincetonhotsprings #mtprincetonhotspringsresort #memorialday2021 #mybirthday🎂

Just sitting at the kitchen table smelling the lil

Just sitting at the kitchen table smelling the lilacs from our garden, listening to Sophia tell a story about all her friends who came to play this year. 👒🌷🙏🌈

#waldorfinspired #waldorfeducation #sarahssilks #rockerboard #downtime #freetime #letthembebored #imaginativeplay #imitationplay #unschooling #may #thelindentreehouse #lilacseason #longmontcolorado #longmontpreschool #waldorfinspiredpreschool #lifeways #longmontlifewayspreschool

Lots of fun was had by all. 🥰The inaugural year

Lots of fun was had by all. 🥰The inaugural year of the Linden Tree House is now complete. 🙌
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So grateful for all the families who shared their dear children with me and trusted me to be a safe haven in this most interesting of years.
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It’s a beautiful day in the neighborhood

It’s a beautiful day in the neighborhood

It can be challenging as a parent. There’s so ma

It can be challenging as a parent. There’s so many philosophies, it’s hard to find our way.
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Add to that our own emotional traumas from childhood + not fully having space for our true emotions to be seen + heard, + parents can be left wondering what to do when the going gets tough.
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In simplest terms, all feelings can be accepted, SOME behaviors need limiting.
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If a child hits, screams, yells, grabs, we can wonder what to do. Ask 5 friends and you’ll get 5 different opinions. Some believe in tough love. Some believe in making a big stink, lecturing, punishing, time-out, isolating, shaming.
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We each get to choose how to parent. That’s on us.
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But what I think I know to be true, from my own parenting, working with children for 20 years, studying RIE, Waldorf + Hand in Hand Parenting, is that when children are upset, hitting, or doing other things we don’t like, they’re saying: I don’t feel as connected to you as I need to.
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They’re also saying: Help! I’m out of control.
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If we isolate, shame, put in time-out, yell, lecture, blame-then we send the message that they’re not OKAY.
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That we’re NOT on their team. That they’re ALONE with these BIG feelings + they can’t share themselves fully with us.
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It may work. For awhile. We’ll find out for sure when they’re teenagers. 😟
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We have a window of opportunity when they’re young to let them know we’re ON THEIR TEAM. When the world is overwhelming, they can count on us to be their North Star.
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The mistake we sometimes make is thinking that acceptance = permissiveness. That allowing feelings + not isolating immediately means that we condone all behaviors.
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Hitting, biting, pushing, these things all need to be stopped. Of course we say, “don’t hit.”
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But then what? It’s called “stay-listening”
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Next time your child pitches a fit see if you can stop what you’re doing. Slow down. Sit down.
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Get curious. What’s going on with them right now? It’s less about making them behave and more about nurturing the deeper need-Which may just be you listening & being present with their pain. #revolutionary

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Oh goodness! What have I done? I am now the mother

Oh goodness! What have I done? I am now the mother of chickens! 🐣🤗🐓

Wish me luck! I’m not sure what I’m doing but I figure if I can raise a human I can probably raise some chickens.

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