I suppose as a young girl my fantasies were similar to many women: I wanted to grow older, be happy, get married and have children. Nowadays, the complexity of adult relating has descended upon my life & I realize it’s not all so simple. Here’s what I know for sure: What is most appealing to me at…
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The #1 Way to Identify a Soul-Mate Relationship
I remember the day that my girlfriends and I had been out shopping and they left it up to me to pick our place for lunch. I chose a local Italian restaurant I had not been to in awhile. When we entered, my eyes fell immediately upon a handsome male I’d never seen before. As…
3 Common Mistakes Single Women Make with Men
The other night, while the temperatures outside dropped to below zero, I received a phone call from a beloved brother. He had a thing or two on his mind about what he’s noticed with the single women in our tribe. I lent my ear and listened with compassion and humor as I chuckled and laughed…
15 Relationship Red-Flags You Should Not Ignore
A Course in Miracles says that relationships are Divine assignments. I love to think of relationships this way. That our partners are sent to us as angels from the Divine, to teach us, to help us grow, to mirror what we need to see & heal. Aren’t we all just actors on a stage, relating…
How to Survive the Loss of A Love
When a love relationship ends, we all have different ways of coping. What’s more interesting to me, is how love begins. I want to tell you about Nate. It was my freshman year of college and I was attending UNC in Greeley. I was heading home for Thanksgiving break and I was so excited. After…
What You Need to Know About Women
Women, how often do you think about your safety? When was the last time that you were afraid for your physical safety? What you need to know about women is they are often concerned for their safety. For men, since they are the bigger and stronger sex, they do not often think…