I’m a voracious reader. I wondered if I could come up with a list of my top 10 favorite spiritual books. That’s a challenge for me, as I have many favorites. So, I’ve selected only book titles that I’ve read all the way through and that have been a catalyst for me to…
Dearly Beloved, If there’s one job we have in relationship, it’s to clearly communicate our needs. Then, it’s up to the other person whether or not they’ll meet them. The problem is that we have to unravel the past conditioning we’ve inherited. We’re trained to not really show up, to not put our needs on the…
The other night, while the temperatures outside dropped to below zero, I received a phone call from a beloved brother. He had a thing or two on his mind about what he’s noticed with the single women in our tribe. I lent my ear and listened with compassion and humor as I chuckled and laughed…
In follow-up to my post about narcissists called, The Problem with Being Swept off Your Feet” I want to distinguish the difference between a narcissist we can be in relationship with, and one we can’t, and what it really means to be in relationship. You see, we are all narcissists. In fact, it is said…
My therapist sat next to me on her office couch, comforting me in my tears. Then, she asked a question that no one had ever asked me before. “What was it like growing up without a father? What was it like when he left, how did you feel?” I sobbed deep throbbing pulses from some…
In the masculine model of the old-world paradigm, we do. We effort. We follow a formula and we get a result. This is, as I said, the old model. More and more women clients are coming to me for similar reasons. We are waking up to our divine feminine, our power, our healing abilities. I…