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We Are Not the Same and We Have Boundaries

2013/08/23 · In: Boundaries, Nature, Power, Psychic, Relationships, Self love

Do you notice that there’s a message in this New Age of oneness that we’re all the same and we’re one?

Does that ever leaving you feeling like you’re not special, distinct, or unique?

Well, I’m here to tell you. We’re not all the same. You don’t have to love everyone up close & personal.

It’s okay to have boundaries, hold back and save some for inside.

I’ve been wanting to be real & raw and just share from my heart.

Here’s my confession about how I don’t always want to join in on the group hug.

I’m setting the perimeter.

Click the link. Watch the video. Find out what I mean.

If you liked it, like it. Share it. Leave a comment and let me know you were here.

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Rachel Claire

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By: Rachel Claire · In: Boundaries, Nature, Power, Psychic, Relationships, Self love · Tagged: boundaries, Carl Jung, dream-interpretation, dreams, love, oneness, unity

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I am a spiritual counselor, clairvoyant healer, teacher and writer. That’s the business side of things. But there’s also the me side of things; the woman who can’t resist petting animals and who has an occasional chocolate bar for dinner, who is more than passionate about women’s spirituality (and rights!) and loves living this amazing life of mine. Read More

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  1. Lisa H says

    2013/08/23 at 10:38 pm

    Love your video Rachel, thank you for sharing your brilliance! You rock sister!

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    • Rachel Claire says

      2013/08/24 at 2:51 pm

      Thank you, Lisa! Much love!

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  2. Una says

    2013/08/24 at 5:41 pm

    Love this Rachel,
    I feel the same way sometimes…. I don’t always want to group hug or be intimate (touching, hugging, sharing food) with Everyone. On some level I KNOW we are all ONE… AND we are also unique individuals… what a beautiful paradox.

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    • Rachel Claire says

      2013/08/26 at 5:46 pm

      Hi Una! Thank you for watching & commenting! I appreciate it. It’s good to know we’re not alone in our feelings, huh? Here’s to the paradox of life!

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  3. Lauren Worsh says

    2013/08/24 at 8:53 pm

    Yes! This resonates so powerfully for me, Rachel, and is something I have been very confused about for a long time. Thank you very much. Beautiful transmission and clarity.

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  4. Lauren Worsh says

    2013/08/24 at 9:07 pm

    I think the dogma of “One Love” has been used as a tool of manipulation in the power-over game of separation… but the energy being expressed is often not aligned with One Love at all. Within we each have the capacity to feel if something resonates with what we are choosing to create. If it does not, we can choose to not engage it.

    Interestingly, submission to the will of others is not the only way of engaging it. Rebelling against others, fighting them, trying to change them is also a way of engaging it, as I see it. As is unwillingness to see that it’s a power-over-game, and denying that that’s what some who claim to be acting in and as One Love are really doing — manipulating, trying to control. If we’re aligned with One Love emotionally and physically, we can discern the difference. You just feel it.

    That’s how it seems to me. What’s your sense of that, Rachel (if you’re inclined to share)?

    Thanks again for the gift of this video. It’s healing something for me.

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  5. Shannon says

    2013/08/25 at 10:58 am

    Thank you!

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